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Anonymous: How do I casually drop hints to my guy best friend that I want him to do me. Because he asked if me if I ever would a week ago and I said yes but I would be nervous. But ever since then I've been secretly hoping it just does. Now idk what to do. It would be both of our firsts and were 18

Tell him that you really want to go to somewhere.. Maybe he’ll ask you out to there.
-Blackskybird


Anonymous: my gbf has had a girlfriend for 5 months and he puts her over me most of the time and when I tell him about it he gives me a speech saying that he loves me and I'm important to him and that I'm his princess but then a few hours later, he does the same thing and chooses her over me and it hurts because I'm in love with him.

Well, Love is actions not speeches.
-Blackskybird


Anonymous: My gbf and I have flirted a lot in the past and cuddled and held hands but ever since he has gotten a new gf, he hasn't changed anything he still says I'm his number one and I am the only good thing in his life and he wishes we can cuddle and hold hands aha I but he tried to make me jealous by talking about his gf... What does this mean because I'm confused?

"If you’re in love with 2 people, choose the second one. Because if you’ve fell for the first one truly, you wouldn’t love the second"
And he chose her.
-Blackskybird


Anonymous: My friend likes his ex gf that cheated on him with his little brother. I know if they do it'll happen again because she hasn't changed. What do you think I could do? The girl that cheated on me also is threatening to kill me...

Threatening is a symbol of weakness. Warn your gbf about her . She cheated on him with one of the closest people for him, then she’ll definently do that again with a stranger or something.
-Blackskybird

Best Quote I’ve ever read.

Anonymous: I really like my gbf. He recently asked me why we have never dated. I came up with an excuse because I was afraid of losing what we have. I now realize that our friendship is strong enough to survive anything, even a breakup. I don't know how to tell him that I'm no longer afraid. He has already asked me about dating three times before Should I make the grand gesture this time, or should I wait til he brings it up again? If I should, how do I bring it up?

I think in this situation you should tell him in a way or another that you’ve agreed. But don’t ask him on a date or something. Tell him as a friend. If he still wants to ask you for a date, he’ll. If he didn’t, then he’s not into it anymore.
-Blackskybird


Anonymous: my gbf and I have been best friends since kindergarten. our families are super close, we do everything together. even go to church together! we usually do all the things that the couples do like cuddle, hug, he hands, send hearts and all that but it was just as friends. now, he asked me to make out with him and asked if he could touch my butt and boobs and, other places. I've never thought of him in that way. what do I tell him?

First of all, in that way he absloutely doesn’t love you. He just wants to touch you. You’re in danger. Don’t let him do that.
If he was in love with you he wouldn’t ask for that, even as a boyfriend.
-Blackskybird


Anonymous: Me and my guy bestfriend were so close but than something happen and I don't know what it is and I miss him so much what can I do. (Sorry for my English bc I'm Turkish)

It’s okay, I can understand.
When this happens it’s actually called being selfish. Talk to him and ask him what’s wrong. And again, as I’ve told many girls before you, apologize if you did something wrong. If not, he’s simply not worth your time.
-Blackskybird


Anonymous: my gbf dated this one girl and during that relationship he kept me on the back burner and I confronted him after that relationship ends and he said if that happens again I can tell his girlfriend to "back the fuck off" and I think I like him but idk

This happens to the most of our gbfs. If you think you have kind of ‘jealousy’ and that you like him that’ll be selfish. If it’s not about being jealous, you should talk to him, not her, if this happened again. He’s the one who should balance between both of you and his GF.
-Blackskybird


Anonymous: Hey, I'm 15 and my guy best friend is 20, He's like a brother to me and we talk everyday. He lives in a completely different country to me. Everyone says I'm stupid because of the age difference and that something will happen and "not to date him" I see him as a brother though and he's gay so he wouldn't see me like that either. Am I stupid for being friends with someone with such a big age gap?

You’re not stupid. Actually, it depends on both of you.

Look dear, if he makes you happy , can understand you, and you’re comfortable with him, don’t listen to what people say.

-Blackskybird

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